There is a big difference between a person occasionally viewing pornography with the knowledge and even involvement of their partner to a full-blown betrayal and using adult websites to start affairs with other people. Like many problems, it can start innocently at first, with a person visiting sexually titillating sites perhaps out of boredom or a seeking escapism but then it can escalate to other behaviours, such as directly communicating with other people online and over time can become addictive and harmful. ASK THE EXPERT: QI have been married 10 years and we have four children aged 9, 7, 6 and 4. Recently, I discovered that my husband has been using adult chat rooms online and seems to have been communicating in sexually explicit ways with other people. Take some time out together You can also take action at home to improve your marriage on a daily basis. For example you can prioritise a daily talking time with your husband when you share how each of you are doing.
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